He’s so great and those eyes just melt your soul. He wined you and he dined you, and in the heat of the moment you lost yourself in the moment. It was fun and it felt right at the time. But now, in the light of day, that may not have been the right choice. All those typical questions are floating through your mind. Did I sleep with him too soon? Will he ever call me again? Does he just think I’m some easy girl who’s only good for sex?
Some men do write women off who have sex too soon
The bad news is that some men do write women off who have sex too soon as being really easy. The bad news is that there’s no way of knowing what your date was looking for – something long-term or just casual? Also, when getting physical too quickly in a relationship can lead to a lack of emotional intimacy. If there is no emotional foundation, it’s possible that the relationship may develop solely around the physical dynamic, which doesn’t ultimately lead to a long-lasting, sustainable commitment (though it is fun!).
Ultimately and unfortunately, there is only one thing to do in this conundrum. Wait it out. When stalking his Facebook page, don’t message him. When scrolling your phone, don’t send him a text message. It’s okay to search for any news articles to make sure he’s still alive, but whatever you do, do not call him. Make yourself busy by doing projects or spending time with friends. Maybe even leave the ball and chain we call a cell phone at home while out and about, thus preventing being confronted with the urge. Keep yourself from drinking an entire bottle of wine and leaving several drunk messages. Remain calm, and when he finally does call, it’ll be worth it.