Being Sexy is About More Than Looks

Being Sexy is About More Than Looks

Everyone likes to be called hot from time to time. It’s always nice to get a compliment from somebody telling you that you look good but is it really only our looks that constitutes our sexiness? It can’t be.

We all have different definitions of what sexy is: To some, it’s the girl with the makeup covered face with big boobs, wearing stilettos; to others it’s the person who just finished a tough workout—covered in sweat instead of makeup, hair in a ponytail, rocking yoga pants. The thing is, it’s not about what you’re wearing, if you have a pretty face, or if you’re fit or not. Being hot is not about how you look, it’s about the confidence you exude.

Being Sexy is About More Than Looks

Sexiness is about how you carry yourself. It’s about how you feel when you look in the mirror. If something works for you and makes you stand a little straighter then do it. If it gives you the confidence you need when you walk into a room, don’t let anyone take that away from you. People these days are all about finding others’ faults and maybe you’ve even fell victim to it, but don’t let them take away your sexy.
We need to start believing in ourselves a little bit more and listening to the negative comments a little bit less. The hottest people are the ones who don’t give a shit when people put them down. Sure it stings at first, but if you have confidence, you will know that those people don’t matter. Let them talk. Tomorrow, they’ll find something new to talk about anyway.

Don’t let anyone steal your confidence because not only is it the key to being hot, it’s the key to living a happy life. When you pair your confidence with humility, you will not only attract more people into your inner circle, but you will glow. Having confidence isn’t about flaunting what you’ve got; it’s about staying humble and knowing that you don’t need to show it off all the time. Sometimes the more we obnoxiously show off our assets, the more people will start believing that we are just covering up our insecurities.

So stay humble when you’re rocking your style. Do what makes you feel best but there’s no need to flaunt it. Keep your confidence up and don’t let nasty comments get you down. Be happy, be nice, and be loving towards others. Know that you are a good person, that you are awesome, and that you are sexy. After all, it doesn’t matter how you look, it matters how you feel. Your attitude is what makes you hot so stay confident!

Humbly confident,
The Love Hawk

With degrees in Communications, Psychology, and Broadcast Journalism I've always been passionate about writing but it wasn't until I paired it with my love for relationship advice that I found my niche. I work in Marketing and run my blog (www.thelovehawk,com) during my free time. I like white wine, the Backstreet Boys, and watching football on Sundays. Like me on Facebook at and follow me on Twitter @TheLoveHawk.

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