7 Rules for Hotter Phone Sex

Whether you have been having phone sex for years or you are just about to start, you should know some of the dos and don’ts to make it a fulfilling experience for both you and your partner. Here are 7 rules for hotter phone sex guaranteed to leave both of you spent and satisfied.

Plan for It, or Not

The best phonesex is usually when you plan for it and have time to prepare and set the scene. But, there are some impromptu times you will want to have phone sex, too, so be willing to mix it up a bit here and there.

Allow Each Other Total Freedom

When you tell your partner that nothing you talk about is off limits, that really opens up the possibilities for hot phone sex. Be kind and accepting of their suggestions. Remember, you’re only talking about doing something, you aren’t actually doing it. If something is said that really throws you for a loop, talk about it later when you aren’t having phone sex. Feel free to talk about things you think about, but probably wouldn’t do in person. When your partner knows this is the case, they will feel comfortable letting you explore.

Learn Your Partner’s Favorite Words

Don’t throw out the “C” word unless you know your partner is going to like it. Go bold, use dirty words, just make sure you know your partner well enough to go for those extra dirty words. What does she prefer you call her vagina? Love muffin? Pussy? Kitty? Whatever it is, use that. Any woman will love that you have a special word just for her.

Use Action Words

Shove, spread, finger, lick, squeeze, stroke – use words that direct and tell what to do. You can think of some of these beforehand so that you have a little list in your head to pull from. Pull! That’s a good one, too. If you need more, you can try calling a phonesex operator to learn the best words to use.

Breathe

Heavy breathing is one of those sounds that goes from your mouth straight to her loins. Moan, breathe, grunt and let out all of those animalistic sounds that want to come out. She’ll love it and maybe respond the same way.

Use Sexy Adjectives

Wet, slippery, hard, tight, hot, pink – use those adjectives that instantly put you in the mood for hot sex. Using adjectives helps add the right amount of detail to your words so that she can feel like she is really there with you. Plus, they just sound sexy when you say them.

It’s All About Your Sexy Voice

Your phone sex voice is a little bit like your morning voice. It is relaxed, sleepy, lower, and slower. It is breathy and full of moans. The sooner you find your sexy voice on a call, the sooner you will both be having fun.

Whether you are dirty talking pro, or you need a few tips and pointers, phone sex can still be fun. When you know it is time to up your phone sex game, try some of these 7 tips to get both you and your partner excited.

 

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